However, you generally have some flaws in your
presentation which are hurting people like us. We have observed with a lot of
pain, the very disparaging words you use to describe HIV and especially persons
living with HIV in your news items. Some of you make it seem like everyone who
has the HIV virus led a bad promiscuous life and should not be taken seriously.
More like, all of us living with HIV brought this situation upon ourselves so
we should not be supported. Oh and some of you use barbaric words and
situations to describe HIV and AIDS as if it is only animals who suffer from
the condition.
We will not try to explain and justify the various
means by which people get infected with HIV. However, we have a few questions.
For instance, the now 20 year old boy who was born with HIV, does he fit into
the promiscuous circle you have drawn, where HIV is concerned? The faithful
husband who got HIV through the adulterous wife, does he fit into your
promiscuous circle? The Good Samaritan who offered help on an accident scene
and somewhat had an incident of blood transfusion because of his own bruises
and that of one victim who was in a much severe state, does he fall into it?
That young girl who got defiled many times by her Uncle, does she fall into
your category?
Currently, information is available at almost every
corner, every phone, tablet and other computers you have in your offices.
Internet is very present. Will there be any harm in any of you going to Google
to type in a question about HIV\AIDS and educating yourselves before you come
to sit on radio and blatantly disrespect us like that? Should you take a ten
minute Google search on HIV, for instance, we are certain you will know that
treatment for HIV has advanced and that the antiretroviral drugs are able to
sustain and give us a very healthy normal life. You will realize that a woman
who is HIV positive can have a baby who is not HIV positive. Again, you will
know that a husband and wife who both have HIV can have a baby who does not
have HIV. And, an HIV positive person can get married to an HIV negative person
and they will be as healthy as any other normal couple. Yes, this is how far
the HIV situation has being contained and how easy this information is
available.
There is a news item on a seminar on HIV as part of
your news. The President has spoken about a certain fund for HIV related
projects. Some persons living with HIV are going on a sensitization drive. An
HIV positive person has called on support from the public. And you make these
news items seem like a waste of your airtime!
At all times when we listen to your descriptions of
our condition, our hearts break. You make our HIV negative partners feel stupid
for being with us. You make our children doubt whether they are indeed HIV
negative. You make us want to hide and never come out again. Your audiences are
large and very much uncountable. Anytime you make such pronouncements, you
single handedly, and in a few minutes mange to get a whole lot of people to
increase their intolerance towards persons living with HIV. Stigma and discrimination
kills faster than the HIV deteriorating to AIDS. Your stigma and discrimination
laden language is unfair, disrespectful and yes, we have not ceased to be human
beings because of HIV. We are just like you.
At least we have gotten tested and we know our
status. We are getting treatment and it is a wonderful thing for all of us. But
you who sit on air and crucify us, have you ever gotten tested for HIV? When
was the last time you checked? Now should you realize you are HIV positive,
will you see yourself as the worse of human beings? Will you describe your
condition as you do now in your news items?
The mode of transmission is such that you may think
you are far off. But hey, anything can happen any day. Today it is us, tomorrow
it can be you.
Our plea is simple. Stop your stigma and
discriminatory filled languages you use for us. You can come to us for some
education and we will be more than pleased to offer you any educative materials
you want. Use your medium to educate, and not to misinform people.
Thank you.
***Sentiments drawn from some persons living with
HIV.***
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